There's no right or wrong in doing things and maintaining a relationship. As everyone has their different opinions, different strengths, different methods, etc. As long as it works both ways.
1) Compromise
Giving & receiving, taking turns, and having both opinions taken into consideration. Don't set expectations, but rather to receive anything with open minds & hearts. (unless its bad habits...please do something about it)
2) Communication
Open communication would be ideal. There shouldn't be fears nor doubts nor prejudice towards an idea, a topic, and especially each others concerns. Be subtle yet direct, straight to the point. Tell no lies. (How can there be trust when everything is a lie, right?)
3) Understanding
Be aware of both sides situation, ups & downs, maybe even each others mood. Communication is required, so that both person speak up to let each other know what's going on in order for anyone to understand (& to be understanding about it)
4) Respect
Personal Space & Boundaries
No matter how much both people want to spend time with each other, sometimes everybody also need their own personal space to breathe, and their privacy. A "NO" means "NO", and nothing else. Don't ASS-u-ME and keep bugging about it.
Secrecy
Everybody has secrets. It is up to the person whether they would like to share it with us or not. Sometimes it requires one to pick up the courage first in order to share their secrets, or to wait for the right time, etc. Whatever the secret is, respect it, and keep it as it is. Secrets aren't meant to be spread all around (especially after a big major bad break-up) Stop telling on others secrets unless you're prepared to have your secrets told.
5) Love
While a relationship cannot live on Love alone, but it does need some loving quality to keep it going. Love should encourage and give strength to everyone. Love should be sweet, melodic, and nice all around it. Love should be meaningful, beautiful, and wonderful. (Full of love, huh?)
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